Saturday, August 28, 2010

Bank Account

This is AWESOME ... something we should all remember.
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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably combed and shaved perfectly, even though he is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today.
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
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As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on his window. I love it,' he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy.
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Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait.' 'That doesn't have anything to do with it,' he replied.
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Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged .. it's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it. 'It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do.
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Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open, I'll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I've stored away.. Just for this time in my life.
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of memories!
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Thank you for your part in filling my Memory Bank. I am still depositing.
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Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.

9 comments:

Connie said...

I love this, Denise! I especially like the five rules to be happy. Very good advice! :-)

Frances said...

Love it!

Jane said...

Oh, this is wonderful. So much of life really does depend on your perspective, doesn't it??

Jane

Anonymous said...

Beautiful and so true! Thank you for sharing it!

Tiz said...

A great post....we really do have a choice....gripe and grumble or rejoice and praise!!!!

XmasDolly said...

Totally awesome. It has to be the best post I've read all day. Thanks for sharing. Love the life's rules. So true. Thanks for stopping by my blog & I hope you come back soon.

Ginny Hartzler said...

this is very good! Expect less has helped me more than once, that's a good one they put in.

Surprised By Joy! said...

Thank you for this....really great.

Blessings,
Tammy

Nessa said...

This was really wonderful. I am going to try really hard to remember his advice.